Last October, I returned to work after spending nearly five years raising my two daughters. I was excited to begin a new venture, but I struggled with the guilt of being away from my daughters after having the privilege of spending so much time with them. Soon after I started my new job, I knew I had another issue to face. During those five years, I had completely lapsed in my volunteer work. Always an active volunteer before having children, I felt it was my obligation to give my time to others. I am keenly aware of the privileges I have by sheer coincidence of being born in the United States and becoming a mother had significantly heightened my sensitivity to injustices around the world. This was a difficult choice - I already felt guilt over returning to the workforce, yet here I was potentially signing up for something else that would take me away from my daughters. Was doing good for the world doing bad as a mother?
Earlier this year, I was thrilled to have the opportunity to join Friends of the World Food Program as Florida’s State Coordinator as part of the FWFP’s committee program. Access to food, particularly in this day and age, is a fundamental human right and I feel honored to be working on behalf of this cause. But in spite of my excitement, my dilemma remained - taking on this role meant offering a significant time commitment to ensure the success of this initiative in Florida and thus more time away from my girls.
Rather than taking away from my role as a mother, I have found that my volunteering has added a new depth to my abilities as a parent. There is no nagging at the dinner table about starving children in a far away land - there are now real discussions about world hunger and its implications for us based on my role with FWFP. They look at the red cup, a symbol of the WFP's Fill the Cup Program, with a thoughtfulness I previously believed to be beyond their years. It’s true that my daughters may lose some face-time with me, but I also know they are gaining much from seeing me model the important role of being an advocate for others - especially those without a voice of their own. I sense a change in my kids as they see me “walk the talk” and I feel pride knowing that I am now raising a future generation of active volunteers. Though my intent in volunteering is to serve the world, I can’t help but find joy that my own children are reaping the benefits as well.
As I look back, I'm sorry that I let so much time pass without becoming more involved. I thought I would be harming my kids by taking time away, but my volunteering has added much to all of our lives. There is so much to be done and there are actions that fit into every schedule. Too busy to serve as a volunteer? Consider writing a letter to your member of congress. On June 11, 2009, U.S. Representatives Jim McGovern (D-Mass.) and Jo Ann Emerson (R-Mo.) introduced the Roadmap to End Global Hunger and Promote Food Security Act of 2009 (H.R. 2817, Roadmap Act) and your letter will make a difference in getting this key legislation passed. Learn more about how you can help here. Have you been looking for a way to get more involved? There are numerous ways that you can give your time towards addressing world hunger - learn about volunteer opportunities with FWFP here. Every action, no matter how seemingly small, makes a difference in eliminating world hunger.
Angie Ross
State Coordinator, Florida
Friends of the WFP
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